The evidence shows a--direct--act to only give salutation to the male father and it continues to male throughout ransom note. No communication to Mrs. Ramsey and no female names.

I smell Muslim males in the HE way of female dominace. Muslim females to the back or in separate rooms. Behind which door?

Note: Male dominace isn't restricted to Muslims only, but One must find others coincidences to continue as to a association to Muslims. The developing Muslim uprising in their Holy Jihad against the West and esp the USA is building pre-1996.