The thing is, I honestly don't understand how they could have been so sloppy about it, how come they were so stupid? naive? couldn't come up with anything better to talk about than the parent/s/family? I don't KNOW because I've NEVER understood it AT ALL. To me it's always seemed so obvious. I know that has been the case with pretty well all of our members. There just is no satisfactory explanation. I can only be ever so thankful it wasn't me and mine on the wrong end of this case. As it is, we have all taken more than our fair share of abuse. I've been fighting back and became SO DISGUSTED that I no longer cared about "their" feelings, just as they didn't care about mine or the Ramseys or the other people they were so mean and hateful toward. THIS HAS BEEN THE MOST UNUSUAL LEARNING EXPERIENCE FOR ME. I've commented on it so many times to friends and family and been unable to truly express it so that they can come close to understanding.