Semantics at work..."As time progressed, I followed every twist and turn of the case. I met JonBenét's parents and painted with her mother, and often visited her tiny grave."

Rita met Patsy in a store, phoned her a few times and saw her on one other occasion. They were not "friends" by any means. Rita was there intending to hurt the Ramseys. That was the reason for the contact and her intention and everything she did was tainted by that motive.

Rita has visited the grave often - and written about those visits. She finds fault at how it looks, how it is maintained. She watches it on occasion just to see who might show up. She has her own motives - and i think they are not honorable.